FAQs
Rest Assured Memorials Orders FAQs
Yes. Families can purchase caskets, urns, and memorial keepsakes online and have them shipped directly to a funeral home, crematory, cemetery, residence, or another approved location depending on the product and delivery requirements. Online memorial shopping allows you to compare materials, styles, prices, dimensions, and delivery options without feeling rushed in a funeral arrangement room.
For caskets and urns, federal consumer protections are especially important. The FTC states that a funeral provider cannot refuse to handle a casket or urn purchased somewhere else, including online, and cannot charge an extra fee for accepting it.
Many families choose to buy online because it gives them more control, more time to compare options, and access to transparent pricing. Funeral homes often provide valuable services, but their casket and urn selections may be limited or priced higher than comparable online options. Online retailers commonly emphasize wider selection, direct-to-consumer pricing, and fast delivery as key advantages.
Rest Assured Memorials is built to help families make a confident decision without pressure. Our goal is to provide beautiful, dignified memorial products, clear product details, and support through the ordering and delivery process.
Start with the type of service or final arrangement:
For burial, you will likely need a casket and possibly an outer burial vault or grave liner depending on cemetery requirements. Contact your funeral home or cemetery for vault or liner guidance.
For cremation, you may want an urn, a smaller keepsake urn, cremation jewelry, or a cremation casket depending on your wishes.
For sharing ashes among family members, keepsake urns or cremation jewelry may be desired.
For display at a memorial service, families often choose an urn, framed photo, keepsake item, or a casket if a viewing or traditional service is planned.
When choosing, consider timing, burial or cremation requirements, cemetery or funeral home guidelines, size, material, budget, and the personal style of the loved one being honored.
For caskets, ensure you have the right size and have the funeral home name, delivery address, contact person, phone number, service date, and any known delivery deadline.
For urns, confirm whether the urn will hold all ashes, a portion of ashes, or the ashes of two people. Check the product capacity in cubic inches.
For keepsakes, decide whether the item will hold ashes, a lock of hair, dried flowers, soil from a special place, or another small remembrance.
For all orders, make sure the shipping address, phone number, and recipient contact information are correct before checkout.
Yes. Many families purchase memorial products in advance as part of pre-planning. This can reduce stress for loved ones later and allows the person or family to choose the style, material, and budget that feels right. If purchasing a casket ahead of time, consider whether the selected product is appropriate for the future burial or service plan.
Yes. Families often have questions about delivery timing, funeral home coordination, sizing, materials, and which product is appropriate. Rest Assured Memorials encourages customers to contact support before ordering if the funeral or memorial service is time-sensitive.
Free standard shipping is available on caskets and many other items.
Many of our products include standard shipping, while oversized, expedited, remote, residential, or special freight deliveries may require additional charges. Product pages and checkout will show available shipping options whenever possible. For time-sensitive casket deliveries, please contact us before ordering so we can confirm availability and timing.
Product photos are intended to show the style, finish, shape, and design as accurately as possible. However, natural wood grain, marble veining, handcrafted finishes, metal tones, lighting, monitor settings, and engraving placement can cause slight variations. These differences are normal and do not indicate a defect.
Choose based on four things: timing, final arrangement, size or capacity, and personal meaning. If the service date is soon, delivery availability should come first. If you are choosing an urn, capacity matters. If you are choosing a casket, material, size, and funeral home coordination matter. If you are choosing a keepsake, consider who will receive it and whether it should hold ashes or simply serve as a remembrance.
Casket FAQs
Yes. In the United States, all funeral homes are required by the FTC Funeral Rule to accept a casket you purchase from another source, including an online retailer. They are not allowed to charge you an extra handling fee because it was bought elsewhere, nor are you required to be there when it is delivered.
Tell them that you have purchased a casket from an outside provider and that it will be delivered to their location. Provide the funeral home with the product name, estimated delivery date, and your order information if needed. You should also ask who should be listed as the delivery contact and whether there are specific receiving hours.
In the United States, “casket” usually refers to a rectangular burial container with four sides, a hinged lid, and a finished interior. “Coffin” traditionally refers to a six-sided container that is wider at the shoulders and narrower at the head and feet. Most American funeral homes and online retailers use the term “casket” for modern burial products.
A common standard adult casket is typically 81-84"L x 28"W x 23"H for the exterior, with interior dimensions that usually accommodate most adults. Exact measurements vary by model. Contact the funeral home to ensure the appropriate size casket is selected.
Oversized caskets are designed for individuals who may not fit comfortably in a standard casket. If you are unsure, ask the funeral home for guidance before ordering. They can often help confirm whether a standard, oversized, or extra-wide casket is needed.
Gauge refers to the thickness of the steel. With steel caskets, the lower the gauge number, the thicker the steel. An 18-gauge steel casket is thicker and generally heavier than a 20-gauge steel casket. A 20-gauge steel casket is still commonly used and may be more budget-friendly. Many families choose 18-gauge for a more durable feel and premium options, and 20-gauge for affordability.
Not always. Gauge is one factor, but overall quality also depends on construction, finish, hardware, interior fabric, gasket design, craftsmanship, and delivery handling. A well-made 20-gauge casket can still be a dignified and appropriate choice. The right decision depends on budget, appearance, timing, and family preference.
Steel caskets are popular because they offer strength, variety, and a wide range of prices.
Stainless steel caskets offer increased resistance to rust and corrosion compared with standard carbon steel.
Copper and bronze caskets are non-rusting metals and are often considered premium options. They are usually more expensive and chosen for their appearance, durability, and traditional value.
Metal caskets are commonly chosen for durability, finish options, and protective features. Wood caskets are chosen for warmth, natural beauty, craftsmanship, and traditional appearance. Wood caskets may be solid wood or veneer. Neither option is automatically “better.” The best choice depends on the loved one’s personality, the family’s preference, cemetery requirements, and budget.
Solid wood caskets are made using actual hardwood or softwood materials such as oak, poplar, cherry, mahogany, pine, or walnut depending on the model. Wood veneer caskets use a thin layer of real wood or wood-like finish over another material. Solid wood is more durable and more often chosen, but is usually more expensive, while veneer can provide an elegant look at a more accessible price.
A gasketed casket has a rubber gasket or sealing mechanism designed to create a more protective seal when the lid is closed. It may help resist outside elements for a period of time, but no casket preserves remains forever. Families should be careful with any claim that implies permanent preservation.
No casket can permanently preserve a body. A gasketed or sealed casket may provide added protection from outside elements for a time, but it should not be understood as stopping natural processes permanently.
Not always. For direct cremation, a traditional casket is usually not required. A crematory may require an alternative container, such as an unfinished wood, fiberboard, cardboard, or combustible container. The FTC notes that funeral providers offering direct cremation must make an alternative container available.
Some caskets can be used for cremation, but not all are appropriate. Crematories typically require combustible materials and may not accept metal caskets for cremation. If the casket is being used for a viewing before cremation, confirm requirements with the funeral home or crematory before ordering.
A cremation casket is designed for use in cremation and is usually made from combustible materials such as wood, fiberboard, or other crematory-approved materials. Some are suitable for viewing or services before cremation.
A full-couch casket has a one-piece lid that opens as a single full-length section. This allows the entire interior to be viewed when open.
A half-couch casket has a two-piece lid, usually allowing the upper half of the body to be viewed during a visitation or funeral service. Half-couch caskets are very common in traditional services.
Neither is universally better. Half-couch caskets are common for traditional viewings. Full-couch caskets may be chosen for certain religious, cultural, personal, or aesthetic reasons. Ask the funeral home whether either style is preferred for the planned service.
Eco-friendly caskets are usually made with biodegradable, natural, or minimally processed materials. Examples may include unfinished wood, bamboo, wicker, seagrass, cardboard, or other natural materials. If you are planning a green burial, confirm the cemetery’s requirements before ordering.
Yes. Depending on the product, personalization may include color, interior panel, embroidery, religious symbols, military themes, custom cap panels, or other design details. Customization can affect production and delivery timing, so it is best to confirm before ordering if the service date is soon.
Yes, many families choose military, patriotic, or veteran-themed caskets to honor service. These may include flag-inspired designs, military medallions, service branch themes, or dignified colors such as blue, silver, black, or cherry wood. Confirm delivery timing before ordering.
Common colors include silver, white, blue, black, copper, bronze, gold, cherry, walnut, mahogany, and natural wood. Color choice is personal. Some families choose a favorite color, a religious color, a military theme, or a finish that matches the tone of the service.
Yes, absolutely. Caskets can have the same quality whether they are purchased through Rest Assured Memorials or a funeral home. Many online caskets are made with better or similar materials as sold through funeral homes. The difference is often the sales channel, selection, and pricing. Families should compare product specifications, photos, dimensions, material, interior, warranty information, and delivery support rather than assuming one source is automatically better.
Delivery speed depends on product availability, destination, freight carrier schedules, funeral home receiving hours, and whether expedited delivery is available. Competitors commonly emphasize next-day or fast delivery in many areas, but timing must always be confirmed for the specific order and location.
It is better to confirm the funeral home first, especially for time-sensitive orders. You need the correct delivery address, phone number, contact person, and receiving instructions. Funeral homes may have specific hours for freight delivery.
Sometimes, yes. However, casket delivery to a residence may involve special freight requirements, liftgate service, appointment scheduling, or additional fees. Sometimes residential delivery can be delayed compared with delivery to a funeral home.
The funeral home or receiving location typically signs for the delivery. They should inspect the shipment, confirm the product arrived, and notify the family or supplier if there is visible damage.
Urn FAQs
A cremation urn is a container designed to hold cremated remains, often called ashes. Urns come in many materials, including metal, wood, marble, ceramic, glass, biodegradable materials, and stone. They may be used for display at home, burial, placement in a columbarium niche, scattering, travel, or sharing among family members.
Urn size is usually measured in cubic inches. A common rule of thumb is that 1 pound of body weight before cremation equals about 1 cubic inch of urn capacity. For example, a person who weighed 180 pounds would generally need an urn with at least 180 cubic inches of capacity. Many standard adult urns are around 200 cubic inches.
Many standard adult urns hold approximately 200 cubic inches of cremated remains. This is often suitable for one adult. Some urns are larger or smaller, so always check the product capacity before purchasing.
Choose an urn with slightly more capacity than you think you need. It is usually better for an urn to have extra room than to be too small. If the urn will be used for burial, a niche, or travel, also check the exterior dimensions.
A keepsake urn is a small urn designed to hold a portion of cremated remains rather than all of them. Keepsake urns are often used when ashes are shared among family members or when some ashes are kept in one place and the rest are buried, scattered, or placed in a full-size urn.
A companion urn is designed to hold the cremated remains of two people. Companion urns are often used for spouses, partners, or family members who wished to be memorialized together. Capacity varies, but companion urns are generally larger than standard adult urns.
A sharing urn is another term for a keepsake urn or small urn used to divide cremated remains among family members. These are helpful when multiple relatives want a personal memorial.
Yes. Some families place a portion of ashes in a display urn and use the rest for burial, scattering, keepsake jewelry, or sharing with loved ones.
Yes. Cremated remains can be divided among multiple urns or keepsakes. A funeral home, crematory, or family member can usually assist with this process. If you are uncomfortable handling ashes, ask the funeral home or crematory for help.
A funeral home or crematory can usually fill the urn for you. Some families choose to fill the urn themselves at home. If filling an urn yourself, choose a calm, clean area, keep the ashes in the temporary container or bag when possible, and follow the urn’s closure instructions.
Some urns close with threaded lids, screws, bottom panels, or friction-fit closures. Others may require adhesive or sealant if permanent closure is desired. Always review the product details.
Not always. If the urn will remain at home, many families do not permanently seal it. If the urn will be buried, placed in a niche, shipped, or handled often, sealing may be recommended. Ask the cemetery, columbarium, funeral home, or crematory about their requirements.
Yes, many urns can be buried. Some cemeteries require an urn vault to protect the ground from settling. Cemetery rules vary, so confirm requirements before purchasing.
An urn vault is an outer protective container used for burial of an urn. Some cemeteries require one. It helps protect the urn and helps maintain the cemetery grounds.
Yes, but you must confirm the niche dimensions before ordering. Columbarium spaces vary, and the urn must fit within the niche. Always compare the urn’s exterior dimensions with the cemetery or columbarium’s available space.
Metal, wood, ceramic, marble, stone, glass, and art-style urns are common for home display. Choose a material and design that feels meaningful as it is a personal choice.
Metal, stone, marble, ceramic, wood, and biodegradable urns may be used for burial depending on cemetery rules. If the cemetery requires an urn vault, the urn material may be less important from a ground-protection standpoint.
Scattering urns are designed to make the scattering process easier and more controlled. They may have removable lids, tubes, or openings that help release ashes respectfully. Families often use scattering urns for ocean, mountain, garden, or meaningful-location ceremonies.
A biodegradable urn is made from materials designed to break down naturally over time. Some are intended for water burial, while others are intended for ground burial. Always check whether the urn is designed for land, water, or both.
Yes, but requirements depend on the airline, TSA rules, and destination. For air travel, choose an urn that can be scanned by airport security. Some dense metal, stone, or marble urns may be difficult to scan. Carry documentation from the crematory and check airline rules before traveling.
Cremated remains must be shipped according to carrier rules. In the United States, USPS has specific requirements for shipping cremated remains. Families should not ship ashes casually through unsupported methods. Check current USPS rules or ask the funeral home or crematory for help.
Yes, many urns can be engraved with a name, dates, short phrase, religious symbol, military emblem, personal image or message. Engraving availability depends on the material and design. Engraving may add production time, so confirm timing before ordering.
While ultimately it is a personal choice and you can engrave anything, common inscriptions include:
“In Loving Memory”
“Forever in Our Hearts”
Beloved Mother, Father, Husband, Wife, Son, Daughter, or Friend
Name and Dates
A short scripture, prayer, or personal phrase.
For a clean and timeless look, many families choose the person’s name, birth and passing years, and one short line of remembrance.
Pet urn sizing often uses the same basic capacity rule: approximately 1 cubic inch of capacity per pound of body weight before cremation. Choose slightly more capacity if you are unsure.
Keepsake FAQs
A memorial keepsake is a small remembrance item designed to honor a loved one. It may hold a tiny portion of ashes, a lock of hair, dried flowers, burial soil, fabric, or another meaningful remembrance. Keepsakes can include jewelry, small urns, pendants, bracelets, rings, ornaments, photo items, and display pieces.
Cremation jewelry is wearable memorial jewelry designed to hold a small amount of cremated remains or another tiny remembrance. Common styles include necklaces, pendants, bracelets, rings, lockets, charms, and beads. Cremation jewelry is often chosen by families who want to keep a loved one close in a subtle and personal way.
Most cremation jewelry holds only a very small amount of ashes, often less than a teaspoon. It is not designed to hold a large portion of remains. Product pages should clearly state the approximate capacity when available.
Yes. Many keepsake pieces can hold a tiny amount of ashes, hair, dried flowers, soil from a meaningful place, fabric, or another small remembrance. Check the product design to make sure the opening and chamber are appropriate.
Some families fill keepsake jewelry themselves using a small funnel and filling kit. Others ask the funeral home or crematory to assist. If you are uncomfortable handling ashes, it is completely appropriate to ask a professional for help.
Some pieces use a threaded screw closure, while others may be sealed with adhesive after filling. If the jewelry will be worn often, sealing is usually recommended to help protect the contents. Always follow the product instructions.
Some memorial jewelry is suitable for regular wear, while delicate pieces may be better for occasional wear. Water, lotions, perfumes, sweat, impact, and harsh cleaners can affect the finish or seal over time. Product care instructions should always be followed.
It is best to avoid showering, swimming, bathing, or sleeping in cremation jewelry unless the product specifically says it is designed for that. Water exposure can affect the seal, finish, chain, or internal chamber.
Popular keepsakes include ash necklaces, cross pendants, heart pendants, cylinder pendants, bracelets, rings, mini urns, photo keepsakes, and small sharing urns. Many families order multiple keepsakes so siblings, children, grandchildren, or close relatives can each have a personal remembrance.
Yes. Keepsakes are often purchased in multiples so ashes or remembrances can be shared among family members. This can be especially meaningful when relatives live in different states or when one person keeps the main urn and others want a smaller memorial.
Yes. Many families keep a small portion of ashes in a keepsake before the rest are buried, scattered, or placed in a full-size urn. This allows the family to complete the final arrangement while still keeping a personal remembrance.
No. Keepsakes can also be used to hold hair, dried flowers from the service, soil from a gravesite, fabric, handwritten notes, or other symbolic items. They can be meaningful even when the loved one was not cremated.
Many keepsakes can be engraved with initials, a name, dates, a short phrase, or a symbol. Engraving options depend on size, shape, material, and available engraving space.
Because space is limited, short inscriptions work best. Examples include:
Name or initials
Birth and passing years
“Always With Me”
“Forever Loved”
“Until We Meet Again”
“Love You Always”
“Dad,” “Mom,” “Nana,” “Papa,” or another meaningful name
Store it in a soft pouch, jewelry box, or protected case. Keep it away from moisture, heat, chemicals, and direct sunlight. If the item contains ashes, make sure the closure remains secure.
Delivery & Coordination FAQs
Depending on the product, orders may be shipped to a funeral home, crematory, cemetery, residence, business, or other approved address. Caskets are usually best shipped directly to the funeral home because funeral homes are prepared to receive large freight deliveries.
Yes. This is often the most practical option for casket orders. The funeral home receives the casket, inspects it, and prepares it for the service.
For funeral home delivery, customers should provide:
Funeral home name
Full delivery address
Main phone number
Contact person, if available
Service date
Required arrival date
Name of the deceased
Any special receiving instructions
Whether the funeral home has limited receiving hours
Your final operating policy should determine this. A strong customer-friendly policy would be:
“For time-sensitive casket orders, we may contact the funeral home or delivery location to confirm receiving details, delivery hours, and any special instructions. We also recommend that the family notify the funeral home as soon as the order is placed.”
Delivery time depends on product type, availability, destination, shipping method, and carrier schedules. Caskets often require freight delivery, while urns and keepsakes may ship by parcel carrier. Expedited options may be available for some products.
Next-day or expedited casket delivery may be available in some areas, depending on inventory, order time, destination, and carrier availability. Because funeral services are time-sensitive, customers should contact support before placing an urgent order.
Only state a guarantee if RAM can truly honor it contractually. A safer FAQ answer is:
“We work hard to meet requested delivery dates, especially for funeral services, but delivery timing can be affected by product availability, carrier delays, weather, incorrect addresses, rural locations, funeral home receiving hours, and other factors outside our control. For urgent orders, please contact us before ordering so we can confirm the best available option.”
Common causes include late order placement, incorrect funeral home address, limited receiving hours, rural delivery areas, missed delivery appointments, weather, freight carrier delays, damaged freight inspections, or lack of a delivery contact.
Weekend delivery may be limited or unavailable in some areas. Freight carriers often have different schedules than standard parcel carriers. Customers should confirm availability before placing a time-sensitive order.
Often, yes. Urns and keepsakes are usually smaller and may ship by standard parcel carriers, which can provide more flexible delivery options. However, engraving or personalization can add time.
The carrier may need to reschedule delivery, which can cause delays and additional fees. This is why it is important to confirm funeral home receiving hours before shipping.
No. The FTC states that the funeral home cannot require you to be present when a casket or urn purchased elsewhere is delivered to them.
The funeral home should inspect the shipment before signing when possible. If there is visible damage, they should note it with the carrier, take photos, and contact Rest Assured Memorials immediately.
Take photos of the product, packaging, shipping label, and any visible damage. Contact support immediately. For caskets, damage must be reported quickly because service dates are often time-sensitive and freight claims may require documentation.
Possibly, but it depends on whether the item has shipped. Address changes after shipment may cause delays or additional fees. For casket orders, address changes can be especially difficult once freight is in transit.
Some products may be shipped to a cemetery if the cemetery agrees to receive them. For caskets, funeral home delivery is usually more common. Always confirm receiving rules before using a cemetery address.
Some urns, cremation containers, or cremation-related products may be shipped to a crematory if they accept deliveries. Confirm the crematory’s receiving process before ordering.
Funeral Home FAQs
No. You have the right to buy a casket from another source, including an online retailer. The funeral home must accept it and cannot charge an extra fee for handling it.
No. The FTC states that a funeral provider cannot refuse to handle an urn purchased elsewhere or charge a fee for doing so.
No. The FTC states that funeral providers may not charge a handling fee because you purchased a casket or urn somewhere else.
They should not say this as a general rule. Under the FTC Funeral Rule, funeral homes must accept caskets purchased elsewhere. If there is a specific issue, such as wrong size, damage, or cemetery requirements, ask them to explain the concern clearly in writing.
Ask for a clear explanation. Families have the right to compare options and buy from outside providers. Funeral homes may share practical concerns about timing, size, or delivery, but they cannot misrepresent your rights or charge a penalty for using a third-party casket or urn.
You can say:
“My understanding is that under the FTC Funeral Rule, I have the right to purchase a casket from another provider, and the funeral home cannot refuse it or charge an extra handling fee. Can you please clarify the specific reason you believe this casket cannot be accepted?”
If needed, contact Rest Assured Memorials and ask for help coordinating the delivery.
Yes. Even though the funeral home must accept outside caskets and urns, notifying them helps prevent delays. Ask for the best delivery address, receiving hours, contact person, and any special instructions.
Funeral homes may charge for services you select, such as basic services, transportation, preparation, visitation, or ceremony services. However, they cannot require you to buy a casket from them or charge a special fee because you bought one elsewhere. The FTC requires funeral providers to give itemized price information so families can understand what they are selecting.
They cannot refuse an urn simply because it was purchased elsewhere. However, cemeteries, columbariums, or crematories may have size, material, or safety requirements. Always confirm niche dimensions, cemetery rules, or crematory requirements before ordering.
Routine embalming is not required by state law for every death. The FTC states that no state law requires routine embalming for every death, though certain circumstances, services, or timing may affect preparation options. Funeral homes must disclose embalming rules and cannot misrepresent legal requirements.
No traditional casket is usually required for direct cremation. The FTC states that if direct cremation is offered, funeral providers must make an alternative container available.
FTC Funeral Rule FAQs
The FTC Funeral Rule is a federal consumer protection rule that gives families important rights when arranging funeral goods and services. It is designed to help consumers get price information, avoid unnecessary purchases, and choose funeral products from outside providers if they wish.
Key rights include:
You can buy only the funeral goods and services you want, with some exceptions for required basic services.
You can receive price information by phone.
You can receive a written General Price List when making arrangements in person.
You can see a Casket Price List before viewing caskets.
You can see an Outer Burial Container Price List if outer burial containers are offered.
You can receive an itemized statement before paying.
You can use a casket or urn bought somewhere else.
The funeral home cannot charge a handling fee for a casket or urn purchased elsewhere.
The FTC describes these rights in its consumer guidance and Funeral Rule compliance materials.
Yes. The FTC specifically states that you may provide the funeral home with a casket or urn purchased online, from a local store, or from another source. The funeral provider cannot refuse it or charge a fee to handle it.
Yes. The FTC guidance specifically mentions caskets and urns purchased elsewhere. Funeral providers cannot refuse to handle an urn purchased online or charge a fee for doing so.
No. The FTC states that funeral providers cannot charge a fee for handling a casket or urn purchased elsewhere.
No. The FTC states that the funeral home cannot require you to be present when the casket or urn is delivered.
A General Price List, often called a GPL, is an itemized list of funeral goods and services offered by the funeral home. The FTC requires funeral providers to give price information so families can compare and make informed choices.
A Casket Price List shows the caskets the funeral home offers and their prices. The FTC requires funeral providers to show casket price information before showing caskets, unless the required casket information is included on the General Price List.
An Outer Burial Container Price List shows prices for grave liners, burial vaults, and similar cemetery-related containers. Some cemeteries require an outer burial container to prevent the ground from settling, but state law generally does not require one for every burial. Funeral providers must disclose price information when offering these products.
The Funeral Rule applies to funeral providers, not every cemetery policy. A cemetery may have its own rules about vaults, grave liners, urn vaults, monuments, and burial containers. Always confirm cemetery requirements separately.
First, calmly ask for clarification and request the policy in writing. If the issue involves refusal of an outside casket or urn, remind them of the FTC Funeral Rule. You may also contact the FTC or your state funeral regulatory board if needed. For an active order, contact Rest Assured Memorials so support can help coordinate and document the issue.
Returns & Cancellation FAQs
Cancellation depends on the order status. If the order has not shipped, cancellation may be possible. If the order has already shipped, been personalized, or is in freight transit, cancellation may not be available or may involve fees. Personalized products are often non-cancelable once production begins.
Because caskets are large, time-sensitive, and often shipped by freight, return policies are available but usually limited. See product specific details for more information.
Urn returns may be accepted if the urn is unused, not engraved, not personalized, in original condition, and returned within the stated return window.
Keepsake returns may be accepted if the item is unused, not personalized, and in original packaging. Filled, engraved, worn, or customized keepsakes are usually final sale.
Damage must be reported immediately. Take photos of the packaging, freight label, damage, and the entire product. If the delivery is to a funeral home, ask the funeral home to inspect the shipment before signing and to note any visible damage with the carrier.
If there is visible damage, the receiving person should note the damage on the delivery paperwork before signing, if possible. Clear documentation helps resolve freight claims and replacement issues.
Contact support immediately with photos of the product, packaging, shipping label, and order number. Time-sensitive funeral orders should be treated as urgent.
Contact support immediately. If the order has not shipped, the address may be corrected. If it has shipped, rerouting may not be possible or may cause delays and additional fees.
Usually no. Engraved, customized, filled, or specially ordered products are generally final sale unless they arrive damaged or contain an error caused by the seller.
If the typo was entered by the customer and approved at checkout, the item may not be eligible for replacement. Always review spelling, dates, and punctuation carefully before placing an engraved order.
Contact us before placing the order. Time-sensitive orders will need to be confirmed based on product availability, shipping location, delivery method, funeral home receiving hours, and service date.
Pre-Planning FAQs
Yes. Pre-planning allows you to choose the product, style, and budget ahead of time. This can reduce stress for family members later and help ensure your preferences are known.
It can be. Pre-planning gives families time to compare options without pressure. It may also help avoid rushed decisions during grief.
Yes. Make sure trusted family members know what was purchased and how to access order information. Keep receipts, product details, and delivery documents with other funeral planning paperwork.
Yes. Many people start by choosing preferred styles, materials, colors, budget ranges, and final arrangement preferences. You can save links, notes, and product options for your family.
Include:
- Preferred burial or cremation choice
- Preferred casket or urn type
- Material preference
- Color preference
- Engraving or personalization wishes
- Religious, military, or cultural preferences
- Budget range
- Funeral home or cemetery information
- Contact person for arrangements
- Where documents and receipts are stored
Yes. Some families choose keepsakes ahead of time for children, grandchildren, spouses, siblings, or close friends. Keepsakes can also be selected after cremation if the family decides to share ashes later.
Aftercare & Product Care FAQs
Wipe gently with a soft, dry cloth. Avoid harsh chemicals, abrasive pads, soaking, or prolonged moisture exposure. If the urn has enamel, engraving, or a painted finish, clean it carefully to avoid scratches.
Dust with a soft cloth and keep it away from moisture, direct sunlight, extreme temperatures, and harsh cleaners. Wood can expand, contract, fade, or dry out if exposed to poor conditions.
Handle with care because these materials can chip, crack, or break if dropped. Dust gently and avoid abrasive cleaners. Natural stone may have veining or variation, which is part of its appearance.
Avoid water, perfumes, lotions, harsh cleaners, swimming, showering, and sleeping in the jewelry unless the product specifically allows it. Store it in a soft pouch or jewelry box when not worn.
If a casket is delivered before the service, keep it in its protective packaging until the funeral home is ready to prepare it. Store it indoors in a clean, dry place. Avoid dragging, stacking items on it, or exposing it to moisture.
If the casket is already at the funeral home, let the funeral home handle preparation. If you are storing a casket before use, only dust gently with a soft cloth and avoid cleaning chemicals unless the manufacturer recommends them.
Payment & Financing FAQs
At Rest Assured Memorials we understand families often need urgent memorial products and appreciate flexible payment options.
Yes.
No. Products purchased from Rest Assured Memorials are paid for through us. Funeral homes bill separately for their own services and merchandise.
Product Comparison FAQs
The best value depends on budget, timing, and preference. For many families, 20-gauge or 18-gauge steel caskets offer a strong balance of appearance, durability, and affordability. Wood veneer or poplar caskets may also offer an elegant look at a moderate price.
Affordable options often include 20-gauge steel, simple wood, eco-friendly, or cremation caskets. Availability depends on inventory and delivery location.
Affordable urns often include simple metal, wooden, scattering, or basic keepsake urns. Even simple urns can be dignified and beautiful.
Religious & Cultural FAQs
Yes, we offer products with crosses, praying hands, angel designs, scripture themes, Star of David designs, or other religious elements.
Yes, we offer patriotic caskets, veteran urns, military-themed keepsakes, and products suitable for honoring service members.
If your family follows specific religious or cultural practices, it is wise to ask your clergy member, spiritual advisor, funeral home, or cemetery before ordering.
Cemetery Requirement FAQs
Most cemeteries require burial vaults or grave liners to help prevent the ground from settling. This is usually a cemetery policy, not a universal legal requirement. Ask the cemetery before purchasing.
Some cemeteries require urn vaults for buried urns. Confirm with the cemetery before choosing an urn for burial.
Always confirm niche dimensions before ordering. If the urn is too large, the cemetery may not be able to place it in the niche.